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"Younger
women often seek the companionship of older men for lost of
reasons. It's not just about the common denominator of what people
think. No point in psychoanalysis with this as it's been going on
for centuries and will continue to do so regardless of the
critique." JJ
This is not a trick
question. How old is too old and how young is to young? Do you
think a 46 year old man should be having an intimate personal
relationship with a 20 - 21 year old woman? I suppose it really
doesn't matter what we think because it happens! We at male nirvana
have spent some time researching this question of morality with
40yrs+ something males and 20 yrs - 21yrs+ something females. The
conclusion is that young women like older men because the
relationship comes with benefits – lots of them.
It would be true to say
most middle aged couples are not really comfortable with the 'older
man younger woman' scenario and from our experiences the middle
aged woman does not deal with this at all well. We have seen it
infuriate older women in public places like bars and restaurants.
What they seem to forget is along the way of the women's revolution
in the past twenty years young women have evolved very different
beasts at 21-23 plus years compared to twenty years ago. Young
males are also threatened by the younger women - older man
presence too. The social dynamics change somewhat when dating a
much younger woman.
Be careful of bitter
and twisted mothers (divine matriarch) if your an older man dating
a much younger woman, read
this if you
think that might be the case. If you are an older man dating a
younger woman that will present quite a few challenges especially
if the mother is close to your age or marginally older. The
mother will dislike you instantly.
But what about an age
difference of say 10 years only. This certainly makes sense if you
are in your 30's as hitching up with someone your own age on a
permanent basis means when you have kids your wife/partner will
most likely be menopausal and the kids will be going through
adolescence. Marrying a younger women when your in your mid 30's
who is say 25 years old can avoid all those dilemas down the track.
Most men don't think that far ahead but women do! If men were to
change the way they actually think about relationships with women
and their age relative to how old they are and what lies
ahead what a huge mind shift this would be for men. Question
is could society deal with it?
We live in a world of
"Species in Denial" when it comes to the unconventional. We know
there are a lot of single men in their forties, fifties, and
sixties plus that will declare younger women are they only way to
go. Women feel more safe and secure around an older man. An older
man knows what to do! The one main problem is younger women want
children. Doesn't make much sense having children in your mid to
late 50's. But then that depends on the man. One very important
thing to remember here is that it is often the younger woman who
pursues the older man. There is very little written of much
interest about this subject but we did manage to find this
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over the
hill?
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