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If you have been served an intervention or
restraining order their is probably a very good reason for it. Our
research has found they are often warranted (but not always!) and
something or rather a series of events that you have been involved
in has lead your ex partner to have one served on you. Our research
has also revealed that they are perfect tools for women who
continually get involved in destructive radical behavior and then
use restraining and intervention orders to hide behind when they
created (cause & effect) the whole situation in the first
place.
Men reacting to their partners cheating on
them, continually lying, using, manipulating, and setting a course
of destructive behavior and self created situations may find
themselves doing and saying things they regret. Men are usually
more enraged when one of these type orders is served on them by the
local Police. Our advice is if you have been served one of these
type 'orders' use the 'power of silence' from that point on. Although
Intervention and Restraining Orders are not classified as criminal
they are a civil matter and need to be taken
seriously.
Family Law Courts will usually grant
intervention and restraining orders to women who apply for them.
You can defend yourself if you think it is unjust or you can plead
"consent without admission" which you can do in writing to the
Family Law Courts before the hearing if you are unable or do not
what to attend the hearing. These type Orders if granted
usually last for 12 months but in some extreme cases even 2 years.
This means you cannot go within 200 meters of the person (and there
family) for the duration of the order. Remember the same
applies to the person granted the order, yet women who get Orders
granted continually abuse this ruling!
You will often find the type of women who
file for Intervention and Restraining Orders have often been
involved in aggressive, abusive, and domestic violence situations
before. They will also have had an endless array of sexual partners
previously (and during your relationship with them) and display
this typical duplicitous behaviour with lots of males.This might be
a subtle hint to review your relationships with these certain types
of women.
You will also find women who use these
'orders' for real protection in quite appropriate circumstances and
our research has revealed there are a lot of cases where both a
female partner and children would be at great risk if this course
of action was not taken.
A man that has been served an 'Order' of any
type without any history of aggressive or violent behavior towards
women should remember destructive
emotional responses are pointless and a sign that
moving on is best. A woman who has applied for an Intervention
Order and is granted one is saying 'leave me alone' so that's
exactly what you do. If she entertains the thought of stalking you
or harassing you with mystery phone calls then hanging up after you
have had an intervention served (we get many emails stating this
happens a lot) report it to the Police immediately. The courts take
a dismal view on this type behaviour by women.
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