Fellow Romans, if we could
make do without a wife, we would all be free of such a nuisance.
But nature has ordained that we can't live easily with women or
without them, so we must look to our long term needs rather then
our short-term happiness. ~ Metellus Macedonius 131 B.C.
Relationship Revolution!
By Jack Jeddaman
Men take note. Dating women today has
evolved far past anything we have known before. Women now live in
an era of same incomes, have the ability and access to own an
apartment/house, their own car and can pick and choose a male for
the time being. In a lot of cases they dominant the relationship
and really are not interested in commitment, they simply don’t need
to as they can and do have it all!
Women today compared to two generations ago
are becoming the hunters and men have lost their way in this new
Relationship Revolution. The average of marriage for a western
woman has now increased from the early twenties to almost the early
thirties, certainly 28-30 years being a key age for many. Women
instead have replaced early marriage with self indulging meaningful
life-content and career-path progression. This in turn means that a
woman becomes instinctively very choosey about any life-partner who
may interrupt this comfortable world.
Is it that men have become a little to needy
in aspirations for a relationship and somewhere along the lines of
this feminization of society men are being overtaken, used and
abused?
As women evolve their own independence
during their twenties, so they become sophisticated consumers and
have acute sense of taste. They are fully aware of what they want,
when and how. If you as a male hesitate with all this you will be
ceremoniously dumped without hesitation.
We noticed on the recent document
accompanying the Australian Census Form in 2006 that it quotes
there are some 350,000 more females in the 18-24 years age group
then young men of the same age in.Australia This would
indicate that here in Australia young women out number young
men.
I have no solutions to the Relationship
Revolution at this time of women. However I can state that as a
male you will need to be as smart and as independent to survive. If
we take the time to think where all this might end up in say
another 10 years you might get the picture and be left sitting on
the shelf. I think it’s fair to say it won’t be women sitting on
the shelf anymore or will it?
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